Ask Auntie Shelley
The Spiritual Advice Column You Didn't Know You Needed
Every Ask Auntie Shelley column begins with a real question from someone just like you. Some come from clients, some from students, and others from readers who simply want spirituality to make a little more sense.
Every now and then I sprinkle in a column about my own experiences because if it’s happened to me, it’s likely happened to someone else too.
What Should I Plant in a Magical Garden?
Planning your magical garden? Auntie Shelley shares her three favorite plants for protection, energetic cleansing, and everyday magical workings.
What's the Best Spiritual Podcast?
Looking for a spiritual podcast? Before you hit play, take a moment to decide what you're actually hoping to learn. The right podcast won't just entertain you—it will help you trust yourself, think critically, and deepen your relationship with Spirit.
I Want to Learn Mediumship. Where Do I Start?
Thinking about learning mediumship? Before you sign up for the first class you find online, here are the qualities I believe every ethical teacher should have and the red flags that make me think twice.
I Can't Meditate... What Do I Do?
"I can't meditate" is one of the most common things I hear. The good news? You probably can. You just haven't found the version of meditation that works for your mind, your nervous system, and your life.
Angel Numbers: What Do They Mean?
Seeing 11:11, 444, or repeating numbers everywhere? Before you memorize another list from the internet, here's why I believe your own relationship with Spirit matters far more than someone else's interpretation.
Why Do I Dream I'm Someone Else?
Have you ever dreamed you were living someone else's life? While no one can say with certainty what these experiences mean, there are several spiritual and psychological possibilities worth exploring.
How Do I Thank Spirit?
Many people wonder if they should leave offerings for Spirit Guides, ancestors, or the Universe. While offerings can be meaningful, I believe the greatest gift we can give Spirit is much simpler—and something every one of us can practice each day.
Twin Flames: Love or Life Lesson?
Few spiritual topics create more confusion than Twin Flames. Is this person truly your other half, or is the relationship here to teach you something? Here's how I approach one of the most misunderstood concepts in modern spirituality.
Free Will or Fate?
Do we choose our lives before we're born, or are we creating our future with every decision we make? It's one of the biggest questions in spirituality—and while I don't think there's one perfect answer, I do have a perspective that's helped me make sense of it.
Are My Spirit Guides Trying to Reach Me?
Have you ever had a gut feeling you couldn't explain, a dream that stayed with you, or a quiet nudge that changed everything? Many people wonder if those moments are connected to Spirit Guides. Here's why I believe they just might be.
How Much Should You Tell Your Medium?
Should you stay completely silent during a reading, or is it okay to answer questions? One of the biggest misconceptions about mediumship is that clients shouldn't say anything. Here's what I recommend—and why it leads to a better reading for everyone.
Is Intuition Safe to Use?
Is intuition real? Is it safe? Could it be something to fear? Auntie Shelley explains what intuition really is, why everyone has it, and how to begin trusting your own inner knowing without fear, guilt, or second-guessing yourself.
The Secrets Our Ancestors Keep
A single genealogy record changed everything I thought I knew about my family. What began as an unexpected discovery became one of the first breadcrumbs leading me toward a deeper understanding of inherited grief, ancestral patterns, and the stories we unknowingly carry through generations.
Should You Tell the Reader They're Right?
Wondering how much information you should share during a spiritual reading? Learn when to speak up, when to stay quiet, and how good communication helps you receive the guidance, clarity, and comfort you came for.